She knows I’m community! What do I do?
Every once in a while I hear about guys who don’t have ‘control’ and find themselves in an uneasy situation when the girl they’re gaming finds out he’s community. So what do you do then this happens? Simple, you stop acting like a wussy and be a man!
Seriously, guys, who cares if they find out you’re in community?? Shrug it off or respond in a typical community like way. If I was confronted in a bar with it I would say something like “great, its going to make it easier than I thought!” and say it with a develish smile. Basically I’m subcommunicating that her knowing I’m community will speed up the seduction process and help me.
However, if I was asked about it while in deeper rapport I might respond sincerely and say I wanted to improve my confidence, social skills and dating life and found a lot of benefit through the community.
This is a slightly different problem than the ClownCocking phenomenon where women speculate you’re in the community or ask if you’re doing what they did in the VH1 show. But if women know that you’re in the community then who cares.
Its time to move beyond the “secret” underground nature of the community. In fact here’s a little secret I will let out to everyone: Girls that know about the community want just as much sex as girls who do not know about the community.