Targets, Weapons and Ammo
When you’re hunting for women it is helpful to think of the process as a game of targets, weapons and ammo. The first thing is to know what your target is. Who you are going after and why? What types of women are you attracted to? Some men are attracted to certain types of women if they’re seeking a one night stand but different types of women if they’re seeking a LTR. I don’t expect guys to have a crystal clear vision of who they’re looking for but they should at least have a general idea and know what turns them on and what turns them off. In fact, part of the process of sarging is figuring out and clarifing what you want. Dating different women helps you find out what you like and don’t like in each of them. So if you don’t have a really good idea of what types of women you’re attracted to don’t stress about it but I’d suggest that you at least form a general idea.
I’ve already blogged about weapons when I discussed mindsets and behavior. I talked about the difference between shot-gun and machine-gun mentality. What I did not talk about, however, was ammo. Think of Ammo as the various techniques, tools or lines that you can use.
It is important to understand that when I talk about weapons I’m referring to them mostly from an internal perspective while ammo is mostly an external game metaphor. For example, I consider a SOSI as a type of ammo. If you have trouble delivering SOSIs then visualize yourself loading up your shotgun or machine gun with them. The mindsets of shotgun and machine gun mentality are internal. Yes, there is a behavorial compoment but the conception is going to come first. The key is to then bring your external techniques and align them with your internal mindset. To some this might seem a bit abstract but a good mindset won’t be enough. If you have trouble throwing SOSIs then visualize yourself blasting them all over the bar. What you are doing is putting the clip in the gun. There is no point in firing a shotgun if you’re shooting blanks!
The newbie that goes out and tries a bunch of tested routines is basically trying to fire rockets from a bb gun. In this case the internal mentality is incongrent with the external behavior. The ammo doesn’t match the weapon. An empty rocket launcher has more potential than a bb gun with some shotgun shells. A good mindset even without specific techniques will get you to think forward and add some techniques. My advice is to form your weapon first and then load it with ammo such as banter, physical escalation, sexual framing, SOIs and more. Visualize yourself with your gun and how you are going to fire these off.
